List

So since my post last night, I've been thinking about what my perfect guy would be like. So I'm going to try and compile a list of qualities I love.

1. Ambition - I want a man who has a career, or is in school working towards that career. I don't want to be with someone who is just going to settle for the job they hate waking up to every morning.

2. Responsibility - As you know I have a child. I want a guy who is responsible in all ways, including monetary issues, work/school, and someone who either has child(ren) (and actually takes care of them) or someone who likes children. My perfect guy would get along great with Kat and they would come to love each other.

3. Intelligence - I don't want a man who uses the word "ain't" in every other sentence. I'm sorry. Speak intelligently. I want a man who I can hold deep and powerful conversations with.

4. Humor - To go with those deep conversations, I want a man who I can joke around with. I want someone who can make me laugh until I cry (it's not that hard to make me do).

5. Attractiveness - I am slightly shallow, but I have to find my guy attractive. I don't think looks are all that matters, but they do matter. This includes hygiene. You must smell good. And you must take good care of your body.

Those are my top five qualities. There are in no particular order.

Now I'm going to describe other qualities that I want:

- Green eyes
- Passion for something
- Ability to cook (I'll help, but I'm not that great)
- Similar taste in music.
- I also want him to like different music than me so maybe he can open my tastes up to new artists
- A nice smile
- Shorter hair. There are only a select few guys that long hair looks good on.
- Musical. I like a man who can play an instrument.
- Willingness to move to Germany with me after Kat turns 18.
- Someone who's not a nurse. I don't want us having the same career.
- Blink 182. I guess you don't have to like them, but don't talk bad about them!
- Randomness. I can be pretty random at times and need someone to keep me on my toes.
- Ability to skate. Skateboard, roller skate, roller blade, whatev'. Somehow you're going to have to keep up with me when I go roller skating cause I'm not going alone.

Well that's all I can think of. You'd think I could find this guy, right? Well nope, I haven't, yet. Hopefully soon!